Yes, so everyone has been in those situations where a dear one is pissed off or really depressed and your crime is that you try to help and in the end it comes and bites you in the arse when the person usually drunk or emotionally drained blames everything thats ever happened in their life since your arrival in it your fault , all of this just cause you wanted to help.
Its been forever that I personally have been part of this phenomenon , sometimes when a dear one is in need of someone to blame and is really in a pathetic condition I really don't mind being the one they shout at , throw stuff at , ignore even bitch about as long as they heal , temporarily at first maybe but atleast pave the way for a more permanent nirvana within themselves and as long as I have a way to get them back as friends or family.
Its common knowledge that doing this is the easiest thing possible cause you play no part in the slope of dejectory in you life and you blame all of it on someone trying to help unknowingly hurting them beyond repair , it can be you mom checking up on your brother just seeing if your ok maybe just some estranged friend of yours but at that moment .. that moment of fury you just see it as someone trying to taunt you , annoy you or possibly even hurt you all of this happens just cause you mix up all the bad stuff you've been through with every critical thing you dislike about the person trying to help ,creating the worst kind of vile ever which not only kills feelings of affection and caring but sometimes also breaks the most important relations in your life.
So yeah I as an impulsive sixteen year old gets the fact that you need somebody to blame and If you need me to be that person I'm there for you but if by chance I lose my temper and blame you for helping me just try and understand you are doing a dear one a very selfless favour and that at that point and time I just needed somebody to blame.
Alamelu.
Its been forever that I personally have been part of this phenomenon , sometimes when a dear one is in need of someone to blame and is really in a pathetic condition I really don't mind being the one they shout at , throw stuff at , ignore even bitch about as long as they heal , temporarily at first maybe but atleast pave the way for a more permanent nirvana within themselves and as long as I have a way to get them back as friends or family.
Its common knowledge that doing this is the easiest thing possible cause you play no part in the slope of dejectory in you life and you blame all of it on someone trying to help unknowingly hurting them beyond repair , it can be you mom checking up on your brother just seeing if your ok maybe just some estranged friend of yours but at that moment .. that moment of fury you just see it as someone trying to taunt you , annoy you or possibly even hurt you all of this happens just cause you mix up all the bad stuff you've been through with every critical thing you dislike about the person trying to help ,creating the worst kind of vile ever which not only kills feelings of affection and caring but sometimes also breaks the most important relations in your life.
So yeah I as an impulsive sixteen year old gets the fact that you need somebody to blame and If you need me to be that person I'm there for you but if by chance I lose my temper and blame you for helping me just try and understand you are doing a dear one a very selfless favour and that at that point and time I just needed somebody to blame.
Alamelu.
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